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Cloth Diapers at Daycare: How to Make It Work

Daycare is one of the most common reasons parents hesitate to start cloth diapering. The concern is reasonable: you are asking someone else to use a system they may not be familiar with, and the last thing you want is to create friction with the people caring for your child. But cloth diapers at daycare are not only possible; thousands of families manage it every day, and most find that once the provider tries it, the adjustment is minimal.

The Conversation with Your Provider

Start early. Raise the topic when you are choosing a childcare provider or well before your baby's start date. The earlier you have this conversation, the more time there is to address concerns.

Be specific about what you are asking them to do. Most providers imagine folding, pinning, and soaking when they hear "cloth diapers." Modern cloth diapers work nothing like that. Bring a diaper with you, demonstrate how it fastens, and show them that the process is identical to a disposable: fasten, wear, remove, place in a bag.

Offer to make it as easy as possible. Provide clearly labelled wet bags, pre-stuffed pocket diapers or all-in-ones that require no assembly, and written instructions if helpful. Remove every possible barrier.

Acknowledge that this is a request, not a demand. Some providers will say no, and that is their prerogative. If cloth diapers are a priority for you, it may factor into your choice of provider. Many parents successfully cloth diaper at home while using disposables at daycare; this hybrid approach still reduces waste and cost significantly.

Which Cloth Diapers Are Best for Daycare?

All-in-one diapers are the most daycare-friendly option. There is nothing to stuff, nothing to assemble, and nothing to separate before washing. The carer puts the diaper on exactly like a disposable and, when it needs changing, removes it and places it in the wet bag. That is the entire process.

Pocket diapers are the next best option if you pre-stuff them at home. Send them to daycare already assembled so the provider's experience is identical to using an all-in-one.

Two-piece systems (fitted diapers plus covers) are more complex for unfamiliar carers and are generally not recommended for daycare unless the provider is experienced with cloth.

What to Pack for Daycare Each Day

Send your child to daycare with:

Enough pre-assembled cloth diapers for the day plus two extras. For most babies, this means 5 to 7 diapers.

A large labelled wet bag for soiled diapers. This should be large enough to hold an entire day's worth of dirty diapers sealed inside.

Cloth wipes if you use them, or your preferred disposable wipes.

A note or simple instruction card if your provider is new to cloth diapers.

At pickup, take the sealed wet bag home and empty it into your dry pail or washing machine. The provider never needs to rinse, scrape, or do anything beyond placing the used diaper in the bag.

Handling Objections

"It's unhygienic." A soiled cloth diaper sealed in a wet bag is no more unhygienic than a soiled disposable diaper sealed in a nappy sack in a bin. The waste is contained in both cases. Cloth diapers go home with the parent; they do not remain at the facility.

"It's too complicated." Demonstrate that an all-in-one cloth diaper fastens and removes identically to a disposable. The only difference is that instead of going in the bin, it goes in the wet bag. If the provider can use a disposable diaper, they can use a cloth one.

"We've never done it before." Offer a one-week trial. Most providers who try it find that it is not meaningfully different from their existing routine. Your willingness to make it easy for them, pre-assembling diapers, providing all supplies, and accepting that they may use a disposable if they run out of cloth, goes a long way.

"Our policy does not allow it." Some providers have formal policies against cloth diapers. If this is the case, you may need to accept their decision, choose a different provider, or propose a trial period to demonstrate that it works. In some jurisdictions, advocacy groups have succeeded in updating childcare regulations to be neutral on diaper type; it may be worth checking your local situation.

Part-Time Cloth at Daycare

If full-time cloth at daycare is not feasible, consider a compromise. Some parents cloth diaper at home in the mornings and evenings, on weekends, and during parental leave, while using disposables at daycare. This still reduces disposable diaper consumption by 30 to 50%, saves meaningful money over time, and keeps cloth diapering as a manageable part of your routine.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can I use cloth diapers at daycare? Yes. Many daycare providers accept cloth diapers, particularly all-in-one styles that work identically to disposables. The key is to make the process as simple as possible for the provider by pre-assembling diapers and providing a wet bag for storage.

What is the best cloth diaper for daycare? All-in-one diapers are the most daycare-friendly because they require no assembly. The Bayrli Deluxe Diaper is an all-in-one that fastens and removes like a disposable.

What if my daycare says no to cloth diapers? You can cloth diaper at home and use disposables at daycare. This hybrid approach still saves money and reduces waste. Alternatively, consider a trial period or look for a provider who accommodates cloth.